Warning Signs

If you or your boyfriend/girlfriend is
jealous,
makes decisions quickly and wants to sweep the other along too and
is intense...

be alert. Beware...

These are warning signs.

You need to consult with someone very wise sooner rather than later - you may be in danger.
Manage the risk you are, or are exposed to, every day - for the rest of your life.

These dynamics in either of you are better identified and learnt about early.
It is possible to live meaningfully with jealous, controlling and intense people - you will need a particularly high ,and ongoing, level of watchfulness, understanding and skill.

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If you are, or choose to marry, such a person, you will be working with these characteristics for the rest of your life. It is relentless work. It is exhausting work. You will be unable to keep up the required vigilance unless you are Divinely sustained all the time.

We are all children of God.
We are here to be blessed by others, and to bless some of the other people we come in contact with.
We are not here to bless everyone who comes across our way. We simply cannot do it.

Working with jealous, controlling and intense people - whether the person is oneself or another - is Godly work and will require Godliness.

You are warned.

Oh, be wise... What can I say more?